People loves to think or decode actions according to their own benefits or the way they have decided to think or judge things, situations or peoples. Humans are selfish creature. You can see selfishness with the strangers, known peoples or with their own family and relatives for the profit.
Some people genuinely misunderstand our words or actions and some pretend or link it to the negative way to hide their own wrongdoings or try to prove how they are always right and make us feel whatever happening with us, because of our own mistake or nature. They don’t even care the damage their actions must have caused to the relationship.. slowly but surely it will break the bondings forever with their loved ones.
I believe sometimes it’s better to be silent then to argue or explain our side. If ever I have to go from such situation, I will prefer to be silent. I will explain once, twice, maximum thrice.. even after that if their is no change in their behaviour, i will allow them to translate my actions the way they wanted. I can’t fight or think negative about my own peoples. Its fine if they Speak negative, talk behind my back.. let them be if that benefits in whatever way. Let them hide things from me, i will neglect n will continue to behave as if i dnt know or i am unaware. if that gives them happiness, let them be happy.
I value relations more than actions. Even if it breaks my heart or cracks appear for a lifetime in the relationship, i will be happy with the fact that it was not from my side.
I Love my peoples even if they don’t.