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My True Nature??? Clueless…
Wild.. Fun Loving.. Reserved Or Peace Loving, Still Clueless About My True Nature, As When I Step Out I Need To Walk On Set Of Rules Of Society And When I Am With LovedOnes I Need To Think Twice Fearing My Action Will Hurt My People.
-Soul Connection
My Unanswered Questions.
Who Am I…. Where do I belong to.. Do I deserve to be in this place… Do I Deserve to be in the society…. Why I am here and Why I came in this world… Who bought Me in the World…. And Where My Roots belongs to????
All the unanswered questions keeps haunting me since I started understanding Life better. One day unintentionally all these questions arised in my mind and since then they never left…. yes it’s still in my head, day and night.
I don’t even know where my roots belongs to, my native, my peoples, my family, my parents…. All I Remember Is Orphanage Centre.
You Will Love….
The Night That Killed Me. (Daily Prompt- Opaque)
I Chose Mind Over Heart.
She left her boyfriend of six years when a rich and handsome boy proposed her for marriage. Did She dumped Her boyfriend for a rich guy or was that Her practical decision or say difficult situation where She needs to think by Mind more than a Heart??
Too many views.. some in Her support, some against Her. But very few or may be no one knows the real reason behind Her decision except Her.. most will say She got attracted to His fortune and dumped Her Boyfriend, Few will call Her Gold Digger or Heart Breaker.
…And The Truth Behind Her Decision…
I dumped my boyfriend of six years… not an easy decision. Six faithful years proves that I am not someone who loves to play with the feelings or with someones heart or someone who easily gets attracted to money. I knew my boyfriend was not rich, nor do I. But I dreamt of a beautiful life post marriage…. Actually we dreamt, Me and my boyfriend, but to walk on the lane to fulfill dreams needs dedication, hardwork and that was missing.. Not from me, but from him. Only love and promises is not enough to lead a beautiful life that we have dreamt together. I have experienced poverty… I don’t want to live again the same life, when I know I can achieve everything that I desired. I started my beautiful journey towards the dream destination soon after my graduation. I worked hard to maintain a lifestyle that I was currently living with the money I myself earned, but I need my partner to walk with me too, to show his support to be there where we dreamt of , but he was nowhere.. He just wanted to enjoy life.. thats good .. but from my hard earnings???
I know His love for me was true, His feelings was real. I thought with time He will change, will be serious with His life , but No.. He was not. Little irritation and small fights started between us. Every other day we fought with each other, but love was intact between us. He thought I changed, but I was not… I wanted Him to change, not in the way He treats me, but in a professional way. Differences increased but we sticked together.. You know.. our love was that deep. By then one day I got a good marriage proposal.. I told him .. still nothing changed. May be He took me and My love for granted. By now my mind was more powerful then my heart… My mind explained My heart… told to think about Life in the long term.. Heart kept quiet.. Mind won.. I said Yes.. Yes to the good proposal… Yes to the life I always dreamt of… Today I am happy .. My mind was right.
Call me anything.. I knew I did right. My decision was right.. yes may be little selfish, but to take love for granted is wrong too.
Whoever think I did wrong, Once Keep your daughter or yourself in my place and then think what would be the correct decision… then decide Was I wrong or Right.
I Will Live, Love and Laugh.
I live my Life freely, Laugh out loud in public places, Voice my opinions, Wear whatever I love to.. like shorts,minis and hangout with my male buddies at night.
I am labelled as a careless, bad character woman by the same society who fight for women’s Liberation, women’s Empowerment and the Same Society who thinks Womens are equal to men and should be treated equally by the men dominated World.
Follow Your Instinct.
Life was rough for her since she shifted to a new city. Big dreams in her eyes and the fire inside to achieve everything she desired, deserved and to live life on her own terms. Alone, beautiful, single young woman trying her luck in the big city is really a difficult task.
Recently she got a good opportunity to work in a big multinational company. She was happy as her hardwork paid off. Everything was as per her expectations except her Boss. He was in his mid fifty. Most of the time he used to make her wait beyond office hours. She has to obey as he was her boss and to complete the work in scheduled time was her duty, she can’t deny even if he allot her work everyday just when she’s about to leave the office. Sometimes her instinct hinted her something is not right in his intensions, she used to brushed away such thoughts thinking it might be normal to work late hours in big city.
One day her boss asked her to accompy him for the meeting at the hotel. He asked her to be there to assist him in his work. The venue and time was odd as he asked her to be there at sharp 10pm. She had to obliged as it was her boss decision. She reached the hotel premises by 9.45pm. He saw her from his suite window, a cunning smile appeared on his face. When she reached the reception area, a message was waiting for her. He had asked her to directly join him to his suite.
‘Weird’, she thought and entered in to the lift. Something is really wrong, her instinct once again warned her. ‘Get away from this place, dont go’, her mind was continuously trying to alert her. Confused, scared she reached near the door. Slowly Her hand reached out to knock, at that moment something stopped her hand midway. A voice from her head screamed, ‘NO’. She turned and walked away.
Next morning her resignation letter was on the boss desk.
Nothing is more important than safety, dignity for a woman. What if she is staying alone, working late night. Nobody can take her for granted.
Is This Really Worth??
Living a Life in a fast paced city is hectic. Away from the family, alone in the city to chase dreams. Rush morning hours, No personal Life, fun and little emotions, sentiments… it’s like leading a robotic life.
While leading a luxuary life in the city having everything around us.. money, fame, designation, but we never notice the heart without feelings, life without fun, brain always occupied with work sometimes even when we are travelling to the beautiful destinations. In short Life has became a competition. Sometimes question arise.. Are we really living a life that we dreamt of… is this an achievement???
Love restricted to material things, life away from lovedones. This kind of life is nothing less than an Arid land. A land without Rain of Love or Storms of Emotions and Life without Lovedones around. The house has became big but peoples have no time to spend time with loved ones.
People loves to think or decode actions according to their own benefits or the way they have decided to think or judge things, situations or peoples. Humans are selfish creature. You can see selfishness with the strangers, known peoples or with their own family and relatives for the profit.
Some people genuinely misunderstand our words or actions and some pretend or link it to the negative way to hide their own wrongdoings or try to prove how they are always right and make us feel whatever happening with us, because of our own mistake or nature. They don’t even care the damage their actions must have caused to the relationship.. slowly but surely it will break the bondings forever with their loved ones.
I believe sometimes it’s better to be silent then to argue or explain our side. If ever I have to go from such situation, I will prefer to be silent. I will explain once, twice, maximum thrice.. even after that if their is no change in their behaviour, i will allow them to translate my actions the way they wanted. I can’t fight or think negative about my own peoples. Its fine if they Speak negative, talk behind my back.. let them be if that benefits in whatever way. Let them hide things from me, i will neglect n will continue to behave as if i dnt know or i am unaware. if that gives them happiness, let them be happy.
I value relations more than actions. Even if it breaks my heart or cracks appear for a lifetime in the relationship, i will be happy with the fact that it was not from my side.
I Love my peoples even if they don’t.
To Do oR Not To Do.
The world survives on Hope. Everyone works hard, lives in harmony, loves each other for beautiful and better life. I believe one who says, ‘ I don’t expect anything from anyone in my life’ is the biggest liar.
Expectations are natural. If I give you respect, I expect same from you. If I show respect to your decisions, words , I want you too do the same. Even if someone disagree with me in any way, I expect or we all expect it should be conveyed properly.
Except mother’s love or parent’s love everyone changes with time. Today somebody is good with you doesn’t mean they will be the same for lifetime. Dont keep wrong expectations from anyone. Yes some expectations are good to keep. Like parents expect their childrens to be a good humanbeing, to look after them, love them. To expect their children to be a better humanbeing is not something wrong.
Some people mix expectations and demand and that is wrong. People should understand difference between these two. We hear or read in news like someone got killed or murdered by somebody because their love proposals were denied or divorce happened because he/She was not as per expected. One can’t be forced to fall in love or one cannot expect peoples will change their likes, lifestyles because you want them to be like that.
Expect what is right but don’t demand. If you show respect , the same should be expected from that person…. that is correct. Express love, but expect the same feelings and to demand for positive answer that is wrong. You can’t force someone to fall in love with you. Understand the difference between Expectations and Demand.
WISE WORDS FROM WISE OWL.
Tommorrow is the Hope,
Today is the Moment.
Hope for the best
AND
Enjoy the Moment.
RELATIONSHIP.
CHERISH EVERY RELATIONSHIP
YOU ARE BLESSED WITH,
IN YOUR LIFE.
WHY YOU LEFT US ALONE
I hold you in my womb happily.
Took all the pains smilingly.
I forgot all those sufferings,
when I first time took you in my arms.
Though I hold you nine months inside me,
Your father too had sleepless nights.
The concerns, the tensions he never showed.
But I understood his unspoken feelings.
Holding our fingers in your tiny hands,
With trembling feet you took the shaky steps.
And now that You are a grownup man.
You left us alone in our old age time.
That doesn’t made our love for you less or gone.
My son just answer one question.
When you were small you need us, we were there,
To hold you, help you everytime.
Answer me my little baby,
Now that you don’t need us anymore,
Who will hold our hands firmly.
To support us, help us and
To hold our fragile body,
Who will Help us to stand on
trembling legs and be our cane.
Everytime when untoward incident happens with any girl or women at any corner of the world, fingers are raised on her or that women is being judged first. Questions like why was she their at first place or what was she doing there at this hour or why was she with them and it goes on n on n on… In reality men should resist their actions against women which destroy her life forever, but instead of that We see most of the time blames are put on the victim.
First everyone shows sympathy and then will say after dark girls should never venture out alone or with guys. And if the incident happened in broad day light then most of them will pointout on her clothes or sometimes directly on her character.
I always wonder why???why women are easy targets when men are at fault.. why no one question that male who is a criminal..who misbehaves with the ladies..who openly does eve teasing on road or at public place openly, but public chose to ignore rather than to resist their actions. No one pointout on their upbringing or character but asks women to be extra careful.
I am against this society thinking that indirectly protect accused and to follow this norms of being tied or confined girls at home after dark because some ill men on road can’t resist their urge after spotting women in the late night alone.
Instead of setting norms for girls about what to do and what not to do.. teach men to respect women. Teach boys to respect girls in their growing years.. Let them know women are not the easy targets and they too have life and loves to enjoy their share of happiness to the fullet without any fear. women too are from the same society as men and we too have equal right to live life the way we want.
Real men is the one who protect the women who is alone on the road rather than misbehave with her.
WISE WORDS FROM WISE OWL.
ONCE YOU DECIDE
YOUR PATH OF SUCCESS..
IGNORE WHO ADVICE
YOU AGAINST IT.
TRUST YOUR INNER VOICE
AND FLUSH ALL
NEGATIVE THOUGHTS.
YOU MAY LOVE…
LITTLE YELLOW SUNSHINE.
When Night Falls I sleep with my head down…
Only to brighten up with your First Light.
The one who glance at me…
Feels happy with my only sight.
Everyone calls me LITTLE YELLOW SUNSHINE.
The world knows our Love Story…
That we will never ever meet…
But that doesn’t make me love you less.
That you are above and I grow on Earth..
Everyone calls me Sunflower
and that’s my lovely name.
The yellow Lane of Sunflowers
Favourite with the Lovers.
I witness every Phase of humans life..
Be it the First Love or Painful Heart Breaks.
I am there to greet for the First time
Or chosen to say Final good byes..
Be it Happy or Sad moments..
I am there with Everyone..
As their LITTLE YELLOW SUNSHINE.
FROM A WOMAN’S HEART.
OH LORD, Let the blessings of YOU be with us Forever…
Whenever we lose hope, You walk beside us.
Give us strength in our Pains and Sufferings.
You are the only one I trust in my journey.
I always try to keep everyone happy and content..
But in this journey I lost Myself and my desires.
I love to spread Peace, Love and Happiness…
Even after all the sacrifices I am branded powerless.
I give birth to new life, still the world consider us less.
OH LORD I Pray to You..
Filter the mind and thoughts of the world ..
Towards the woman of the universe.
Make them see the way we are
Strong, Powerful and the Creator of the Universe.
The one who binds the family
with Love, Peace and Care.
TEN LINES OF WISDOM. (Daily Prompt- Ten)
SOUL CONNECTION 
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