I Chose Mind Over Heart.
She left her boyfriend of six years when a rich and handsome boy proposed her for marriage. Did She dumped Her boyfriend for a rich guy or was that Her practical decision or say difficult situation where She needs to think by Mind more than a Heart??
Too many views.. some in Her support, some against Her. But very few or may be no one knows the real reason behind Her decision except Her.. most will say She got attracted to His fortune and dumped Her Boyfriend, Few will call Her Gold Digger or Heart Breaker.
…And The Truth Behind Her Decision…
I dumped my boyfriend of six years… not an easy decision. Six faithful years proves that I am not someone who loves to play with the feelings or with someones heart or someone who easily gets attracted to money. I knew my boyfriend was not rich, nor do I. But I dreamt of a beautiful life post marriage…. Actually we dreamt, Me and my boyfriend, but to walk on the lane to fulfill dreams needs dedication, hardwork and that was missing.. Not from me, but from him. Only love and promises is not enough to lead a beautiful life that we have dreamt together. I have experienced poverty… I don’t want to live again the same life, when I know I can achieve everything that I desired. I started my beautiful journey towards the dream destination soon after my graduation. I worked hard to maintain a lifestyle that I was currently living with the money I myself earned, but I need my partner to walk with me too, to show his support to be there where we dreamt of , but he was nowhere.. He just wanted to enjoy life.. thats good .. but from my hard earnings???
I know His love for me was true, His feelings was real. I thought with time He will change, will be serious with His life , but No.. He was not. Little irritation and small fights started between us. Every other day we fought with each other, but love was intact between us. He thought I changed, but I was not… I wanted Him to change, not in the way He treats me, but in a professional way. Differences increased but we sticked together.. You know.. our love was that deep. By then one day I got a good marriage proposal.. I told him .. still nothing changed. May be He took me and My love for granted. By now my mind was more powerful then my heart… My mind explained My heart… told to think about Life in the long term.. Heart kept quiet.. Mind won.. I said Yes.. Yes to the good proposal… Yes to the life I always dreamt of… Today I am happy .. My mind was right.
Call me anything.. I knew I did right. My decision was right.. yes may be little selfish, but to take love for granted is wrong too.
Whoever think I did wrong, Once Keep your daughter or yourself in my place and then think what would be the correct decision… then decide Was I wrong or Right.